Edward’s talk on Sawaki Kodo’s “To you…”, February 7th 2019
3. To you who are totally exhausted from fighting with your spouse
When you’re fighting with your husband or wife, you don’t realize that the argument is about an illusion. But in zazen, you recognize illusion as illusion. This is why it is important to look at life with the eyes of zazen.
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Equal rights are only an issue when a couple fights. When men and women are getting on well with one another, no one talks about equal rights.
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Whatever you’re thinking, the thoughts that come into your head right now won’t be there in a thousand years.
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The question isn’t who’s right. You’re simply seeing things from different points of view.
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“No one built this wheel of suffering for you, but you’re the one who spins it and you’re the one who rides it.” [Footnote: traditional saying]
You don’t realize this because you’re caught in the framework of your own personal ideas.
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The actions of one and the same person can save a life and can provoke anger. It’s the same sun that sets on New Year’s Eve and that rises on New Year’s Day.
When you open your eyes and recognize the Dharma body,
you see that no single thing really exists. [Shōdōka]
Even a good-for-nothing recognizes that all things are one when he wakes up to his good-for-nothing nature.
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Stop trying to be something special – and just be what you are. Hold fire. Just sit!
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It all begins when we say, “I”. Everything that follows is illusion.
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Everyone imagines that their ego is something unchangeable, some immovable center-point which everything revolves around. There once was a man who said, “Look, everyone is dying except me!” He’s been dead for a long time now.
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